Friday, February 10, 2012

Channel Your Doodle Addiction


If you notice your child has artistic abilities and want to develop it further, or you just want them to legitimately "design" on their bedroom walls, then I suggest you send them to I am May; a wonderful doodlist (is there even such a term?).

If only I had a thread of artistic talent in me, I would like to go for doodling classes, too. Unfortunately, I can't even draw straight lines even with the help of a ruler *sigh*

Great if you want to give someone a unique birthday or personal/company farewell present, or even special occasions.

Check the artist out here: http://adoodleaddict.tumblr.com/

Introducing a Young Budding Artist: Naz Abas Ng


I Will Leave You Here Tonight
I will leave you here tonight
Walk my way while the light is bright
For you I’ve mended mistakes in my head
Perhaps now I’ll but only smile instead
For once the truth will not subside
Perhaps now this is right
So I count to three
Then let it be
Let it reach
The deepest heart of me

-Naz.Abas.Ng

The artist writes stories, poetry, photographs & draws.
You can check her out at : http://nazabasng.tumblr.com/

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

How PARAH gave me HOPE



I caught the stage play Parah, at KLPac on Sunday for the 3pm show.

The story of 4 best friends of different races in Malaysia, who shared their pain of being a race as well as struggling to be a collected nation.

The storyline was humorous, thought provoking & emotional, while the acting was captivating. They received 3 standing ovations. I teared-up. Sobs in the theatre was very audible. Nevertheless, the play ended leaving the audience feeling hope instead of despair.

They discussed the issues faced by Malaysians, the sensitivities, fear and misunderstanding that we have for one another. Even simple words which may not seem derogatory to a particular race, could be translated as racist to the intended race.

For example: pariah, keling, and etc.

Essentially, fear arises from our uncertainties. Uncertainties will then allow confusion and misunderstanding.

PARAH spelled backwards is HARAP.
*Parah means “Wounded” (to explain the wounds of a society), and Harap means “Hope”.

They plan to bring the play to schools to foster unity. Hopefully the Govt will allow it. The only challenge is how the subject is taught or addressed to young minds.

Well done.

The characters being high school students reminded me of the time when Malaysians were close to other races: in elementary and high school. When we go to universities and work, we tend to stick to one race for some reason. Very few still maintain their old friends.

Like the time when I travelled to Turkey with Vimales, Ang Eu Swan and Farrah. We were the 1Malaysia poster in Turkey to every Turkish's amazement.

I wonder if any political organization or policy maker saw the play. They should.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Ta'leef Documentary by Mustafa Davis: Sincerity & Brotherhood

It's about meeting people where they are.

http://vimeo.com/7733898

This video is the epitome of sincerity and brotherhood.

Watch it.

Live it.

Monday, January 16, 2012

The Critical Importance of Imam a-Ghazali by Hamza Yusuf Hanson

Learn more about Imam al-Ghazali & what he stood for by watching this inspiring speech by Hamza Yusuf

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJezFjbn-6M

A very short summary from the video:

Al-Ghazali was a son of a weaver whose father respected scholars and wished his children would become learned. Al-Ghazali grew up to become a genius where he would win every argument to the point that people found him intolerable. He worked too hard and produced too much until he exhausted himself. After reaching the intellectual stature (comparing to our modern day definition) the Head of Harvard, one day he became melancholic, and began on a journey which took him 12 years. He left his position and started writing.

On this journey, he started writing the art of knowing Allah via a purification. This means understanding the reason for our religious rituals & traditions. He produced many books on purification, and the most important is the Purification of the Heart.

What I love:




  • The purpose is: Taking what I've (al-Ghazali) written and writing your own story with your life.


  • Your blessings are to serve the people in tribulation


  • All roads lead to death, only 1 road leads to a good death


  • Be a beautifier


Hope you benefit from this as much as I did from learning about Imam al-Ghazali

Saturday, December 31, 2011

The Roots: a Tanjung Rambutan Getaway










Since returning from Bintulu, I have enjoyed finding undiscovered places to travel as a holiday destination. Doing the commercial holiday no longer excited me after visiting Bosnia, Bario@Sarawak and Cambodia.

My recent trip brought me to Tanjung Rambutan, Perak, which is infamous for it's HAPPY HOSPITAL (Hospital Bahagia). This hospital treats mentally challenged patients.

My friends and I booked a 3 Day 2 Night stay at The Roots. The Roots is an eco-friendly resort. Why I chose a getaway at The Roots:

1) You had a choice of staying in the durian tree house
2) The resort is eco-friendly in its infrastructure and services. Patrons are encouraged to only eat what they can finish
3) The resort is built adjacent to the Kinta River which can be seen from your tree house
4) The resort is built and surrounded by mangosteen, rambutan and duku trees (apart from durian trees). You are allowed to pick the fruits for personal consumption.
5) They have a pool!
6) They have foosball, badminton, volleyball, and basketball facilities
7) You can visit the aboriginal settlements nearby
8) You can walk up to the Family Farm where you can ride and feed the horse for RM 5!!

Previously The Roots was only open to International Schools, but it was recently open to the public.

Our tree house has 2 single beds, and 2 bunk beds. In total it can fit 6 people. There is a clean and state of the art western toilet, equipped with minibar and kettle facilities. It's really good for nature lovers and not for people who can't stand the outdoors.

We were fortunate to book via Groupon where the room rate was RM 138 per night for 2 people covering breakfast, lunch and dinner. What a steal!

Even if not available on Groupon, if you get the room at that rate with breakfast, you can drive down to the nearest town which is 3 min away and have your meals there.

We made friends with the owner of The Roots, and we also made friends with Mr Raj who owns Family Farm. We had an instant liking to Samurai, the horse we rode. We came back the next day with carrots to feed Samurai. Mr Raj wanted to bring us horse riding near the river the next time we came. Definitely making a second trip soon!


Sunday, December 18, 2011

Prayer of the Oppressed- translated by Hamza Yusuf Hanson





I bought the book for a dear friend’s birthday present and forgot to get one for myself. After borrowing and reading it, I’m glad I got it. The book is not available in Malaysia, so I had to get it shipped from the US.

This prayer was written by Imam Muhammad b. Nasir al-Dar’i. Hamza Yusuf has translated and introduced it to the world. The prayer is widely recited in Morocco, where Imam Muhammad is from, but its miracles resulting from the prayer is widespread. Hamza Yusuf has also accounted for a miracle which happened when he recited the prayer.



"If a man is slain unjustly, his heir shall be entitled to satisfaction. But let him not carry his vengeance to excess, for his victim is sure to be assisted and avenged." Qur'an, 17:33


"Limit your hostility toward your enemy, for one day he may become your beloved."- Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.


The book discusses the following:


The Cycle of Oppression:


Oppression is largely driven by power and wealth. Then there is hate and resentment. Hate comes from the oppressor who justifies his actions, and the oppressed who feels helpless and powerless; builds resentment which continues the cycle of oppression.



3 options available to the oppressor and oppressed to end the cycle:


1) Oppressor uses the defense mechanism which is denial


2) Oppressor stops committing the wrong


3) Individuals restraining him from his tyranny and liberating him with compassion



The Nature of the Tyrant


The Quran describes the tyrant as "deft, dumb and blind" which refers to the spiritual essence of the tyrant. Tyrants surround themselves with sycophants because they cannot bear to hear the truth. The more his power increases, the less he tolerates dissent.


As human beings, it is only through others that we can truly see ourselves, hear ourselves and speak to ourselves. Self-obsession does not allow a tyrant to reflect on himself.


This lack of vision afflicts the oppressor's heart.


"It is not the eyes that go blind, but the hearts within the breasts that go blind." Qur'an (22:46)


The tyrant is a sociopath, an individual who functions in society with a concern for his own gratification, even if it is gained through the pain of others. He does not feel their pain, as he believes they (the oppressed) do not exist as conscious creatures.


Only calamity which will bring the tyrant to his knees, lays him low, and humbles him, causing him to self-reflect the reality of his inner self. In gaining self knowledge we are able to gain remorse, and through remorse, we are granted entry into the kingdom of heaven.



Other Excerpts:


"In these troubled times, rife with oppression, many Muslims have been praying for God's victory over their enemies, and those prayers seem to go unanswered. What many do not grasp, however, is that the One called upon is merciful, and so He will not grant to those He loves a victory over their enemies if in that material victory is their spiritual defeat."


"What is true of any man is true of all men; the only difference is in the degree to which it is true."


"God's privation is itself a gift, for He withholds not from want but from wisdom"


"If one lives in light, one does not obsess about the shadows."


"Herein lies the irony of ironies: from Him, to Him, and for Him is the stuff of our souls, and until we realise that fully in our entire being, the world will continue to brutalise us. Its gruesome nature will continue to overwhelm and confound us until we see it for what it is: a shadow, present only because of the absence of His light in our hearts."



Breaking the Cycle (most important to all of us):


1) The oppressed must acknowledge that rulers often times reflect the people they rule.


2) Self-purification. When we become a people of introspection and judge ourselves before we quickly judge those over us, only then will we be able to transform our condition.


3) If we are to help others, we cannot wish them ill. In recognizing that the oppressor also needs help, we can see him as a trial from God, and not as an independent agent acting independently of God's Will. Cursing, hating or wishing ill is the anti-thesis of the prophetic guidance, which calls for mercy. Mercy does not mean resistance or to suffer in silence. Mercy is the understanding that an enemy may verily turn into a friend.


4) Forgiveness. We cannot expect God to forgive us when we are unwilling to forgive others. In forgiving others, we are implicitly recognizing that they are reflections of ourselves. It does not mean that we forego justice or retribution (which we should pursue), but by looking at our own wrongs, we begin to be less judgmental.


These are just some of the many things discussed in the book but I took a few of them for sharing. I would personally recommend you read this book and share it with your family and friends who are either oppressed or an oppressor.


If you have an oppressing trait as I do, we can use this to work on improving ourselves.


Hope this benefits you as much as it did me :-)